So in the last blog that I wrote, I shared a song by Dara Mclean. At the time (well, its a bit of an ongoing fight) I was sort sandwiched between feelings of discontentment and sadness. Quite out of sorts and just feeling a general sense of disapointment, I found the lyrics of this song so touching. They felt like a healing balm for my heart. All of the words I wanted to say on my own, but couldnt, were being sung to the heavens. Therefore I shared the song in the hopes that it might also inspire the hearts of someone else…
My mom calls today and asks me a question about my last blog. So sweetly, she asked if Dara Mclean was singing in the persepctive of Jesus, or if she was singing to Jesus? Basically, she was just trying to figure out the song a little more. I was a tad confused. As far as I was concerned, this blog post was super clear and to the point. I mean, Dara was preaching it and I was just soaking it in.
Soon after logging into wordpress, I understood the source of my moms confusion. Somehow, I completely posted the wrong song! (hahah) Instead, here was Dara and some of her fellow musicians featuring a jazzy Stevie Wonder hit. Instead of this heartfelt worship prasie session, I was listening to a peppy, sunny pop song! Immedeitly, we both burst into laughter and couldn’t stop. In between giggles, my mom told me that she loved the song, but she was a little confused.
So, the moral for me: God has a sense of humor. He wanted to remind me that life is joyful! Even in the dark times, He can lighten the load on our shoulders. Perhaps the laughter comes from a faulty blog post, a funny movie or a great laugh with a friend. He is a good Father, and doesn’t want us to take life too seriously.
In case you wanted the original song, here it is!
Let not the worries and ceaseless cares of life reign in our hearts today. Rather, let us be overwhelmed in who He says we are.
I pray that this song, these words of our Father, might really change our hearts tonight.
This morning while looking at the daily mass readings, I was reflecting on the Gospel; the beheading of John the Baptist. I began thinking about the sins that lead up to the murder of this holy man. In the end it had me thinking about sinfulness in general. Even if we arent committing murder, all sins share a common ground of darkness; lies, deceit, selfish gain, pride. This can happen in the darkness of our hearts and minds, but very often sinful behaviour is a nighttime “activity”. My mom always said ” nothing good happens after midnight”. She really has a point there. People often commit crimes or engange in sinful behaviour in the darkness. Trying to hide away behind the curtain of the night. Pornographic images lighting up a dark bedroom, break ins happening as other sleep, prostitution taking place under the street lights, one night stands in a dark and dingy dorm room.
But the whole point of this post is to speak about the fact that we are:
“Freed from sin, you have become slaves of righteousness” – Romans 6:18
When I read this verse it just hit me so clearly. We are called to be a slave to righteousness! A flame in the darkness. A word of truth in lies. A model of the beautitudes. A radical follower of Jesus. The Lord doesn’t want us to remain in the dark. That’s why he use countless parables about darkness and light. It’s not just a nice literary detail. It’s literal. We need to stop sinning in the darkness. Now, this definitely doesn’t mean the struggle of sin is instantly over. No! The fight goes on. Every. Single. Person. is in this battle. Our sinful habits are different. No use in comparing or judging each other in them. If we only see the sins of others, it probably time to re-read Matthew 7:3 (log in our eye & speck in our brothers). We need to bring ourselves, our baggage, our trials and sins to the foot of the cross. Beside Mary who remained at the cross, we can lay our burdens down. We entrust all our weakness to Him who takes our sin and gives abundant freedom. The more we come to the cross, the more we enter into the mystery of Christ’s death and resurrection. He knew what struggles we would face, and he gave us somewhere to bring them. Only then can we walk away in the light of His truth, lighter, free from chains and hopeful in our steadfast refuge.
I’ll end with the song that also motivated this post. I don’t know if I should admit how many times I listened to it on repeat this morning!
On this rainy afternoon I find myself slightly melancholic and over contemplative (also procrastinating homework). It seems as though these gray skies have a way of inspiring more reflection than usual. I find myself pondering the theme of loneliness which is a common side effect of rainy days I suppose. We all experience loneliness in one way or another. For some, its the absence of friends, for others its the consuming demands of a job that keep us away from loved ones. Some find themselves living away from their homes for work, school, love… but we all experience loneliness. Even if we are surrounded by people, we can still feel alone at times. Why? I suppose because our friends, parents, siblings, boyfriends/girlfriends, husbands/wives are not meant to fulfill us completely. There is someone else who has this task. He is the ultimate Lover in our lives. He really plants truth, freedom, joy, acceptance and purpose deep into our hearts. Of course, others are meant to bless us and reflect the love of Christ in our lives. But no matter how wonderful these men and women are, they can’t fill the void of loneliness that we all have in our hearts. I have always heard that God has to take the first place in my life, but in practice this is really difficult. How quickly we expect others to make us happy. Making internal demands for the perfect words and actions of others around us. When they don’t meet our expectations, we are left feeling hurt, disappointed and even defeated. Its incredible how easily this kind of attitude can seep into our lives, and how it can really wound our relationships.
I guess the purpose of this blog today is a reminder that God is really the only one who fulfills those lonely parts of our hearts. He is the path to joy. When we find ourselves in our room, our office, a party, a family dinner and we feel empty; God is there. He is calling out to us, and he wants to enter into those places that feel cold. He wants to be central. He wants to bring warmth and life. He wants to overwhelm us with everything we need and desire! At the same time, He gives us an understanding of what it means to live in relation with others. Life isn’t about being served. Its about service. The Gospel for today was exactly that; ‘ …It shall not be so among you; but whoever would be great among you must be your servant, and whoever would be first among you must be your slave, even as the Son of man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many’ (Matthew 20: 26-28). When God takes ownership of our hearts, we no longer dwell in loneliness, because we know we are not alone. We then start to change our expectations of others. We accept our weakness and our poverty. Just as we cannot love others perfectly, they too cannot love us perfectly. And once this is understood, we turn to He who can and does love perfectly. He who came to serve and not be served. He who loved until the end. This is where I want to find fulfillment. O Sacred Heart of Jesus, let us abide in you where there is perfect love. In you we find peace. In you we are never alone. Amen.
Thankfulness your hard to find,
In times that seem so dark.
Sadness creeps so quietly,
It tries to leave its mark.
Just like stains that never fade,
They always catch our eye,
Thankfulness your hard to find,
But if we only try.
Singing birds play music now,
The rain it makes us smile,
Nature is a masterpiece,
We stop to sit awhile.
Thankfulness your hard to find,
When we stop seeking you.
Light will always radiate.
And rays they will shine through.